Friday, June 18, 2010

Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

I recently put some blue streaks in the bottom layers of my hair



and they think it looks trashy



personlly i like it



and think its cute



infortunally being 15 doesnt give me the "right" (according to my parents) to do whatever i want to MY hair



they want me to get it dyed out or something



so,



1: do you agree with my parents



2: what can i do to convince them to let me keep it i mean its gonna wash out in a couple of months anyways?



heres a picture of it:



http://i17.tinypic.com/7yi87l1.jpg



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

I think it looks great, unfortunately, my opinion won't matter to your parents.



Just explain to them as calmly as you can that it will wash out, promise you won't do it again. Acting like a child will make them treat you like a child, so be as adult as you can about it, and if they still won't let you keep it, do as they say.



I had the same problem when I was younger, I had to wait until I was 18 and out on my own before I could do everything I wanted to do to my hair. Sometimes you just have to learn to deal



(My hair is currently pink, in the past it has been blue, purple, green, red, black, blonde, brown, and orange)



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

It looks fine-u just want to be different-I always wanted to be unique when I was 15. At least u don't look like a freak-tell them if it's not out in a week, you'll dye it out.



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

i dont think its trashy. you just need to convince your parents and tell them you are trying to be different not trashy. tell them you are classy not trashy! it might work cus im 15 too and i know how you feel



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

I like it, its fun! Its not like crazy intrusive either! You're parents are rather strict, eh?



To be honest, they feed you and give you a place to live, so until you're on you're own, you unfortunately do have to listen to them.



And how important is the blue hair really?



Is it worth a big fight?



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

yup!it's cute...convince ur mom like it's gonna last only for a month or two...



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

Personally, I like unnatural hair colors. But sometimes it does look trashy on some people.



Yours look fine to me though.



I disagree with them.



I guess parents are used to the believe that people who do dye their hair funky colors are trashy, but it's so common today.



I don't know. Just my opinion.



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

1. no it doesnt look trashy( but personally colors in hair like pink and blues is kinda wierd )



2. Say i am (yrs old) i deserve to have a right, its my hair, im the one that has to deal with the consequenses.



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

1: i dont agree with your parents and plus it shows a little bit of your personality and style



2: just tell them that they'll havta wait till it washes out and that its your hair and you can do what you want with it



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

It looks normal.. I've seen worse.



Get your parents to look at the other kids with wilder hair.



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

tell them there over reacting.



Tell them to think about it, and it's only hair, not the end of the world.



Jeez, they might as well freak out when your hair is turning gray when you get old, that's how stupid it Really is =P



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

It's not like you dyed your whole hair blue.



Most parents just over-react to stupid things.



Just keep it in.



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

1. Well...no....it's not trashy...o_O and it's your hair...you have the "right" to do WHATEVER you want with your hair. They can control your curfew and other things but if something belongs to you then it's not their right to say what you can and cannot do to it.



2. I don't know...i usually ignore my parents when they say something about my hair and clothes...



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

Make a compromise with them... offer to help out more/ get good grades whatever.



Tell them looks aren't everything and calmly explain that you are just trying to express yourself or something.



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

wow !!! you are AWESOME!!!! Dont worry...you certainly look very CUTE!!! I wud love to have that hair style.



You have to convice your parents like getting someone to say your hair looks good in FRONT of your parents...the sudden change in your parents may be cuz pf care and worry about thie daughter...they want their daughter to be the best.



there is no problem with them...nor with you.



you look mind blowing!!



any boy wud love to have you.



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

I am 35 and I don't think it is that bad. There is a lot worse out there. I actually like pink better, but just my opinion. I am guessing your parents are somewhat close to my age. The problems is that back in our day, when people had colored hair like that, they were considered really edgy, almost punk and it was a really rebellious thing to do. Your parents don't understand that it isn't like that anymore and they are scared for you. A lot of the kids who wore there hair like that back in our day also drank and partied and did drugs. You just need to explain to your parents that now it is more of a trendy thing as opposed to a rebellious thing. As are tattoos and nose piercings. They are considered cute and not really all that edgy anymore. I predict that in a year we will be seeing these colored streaks all over the place and then they will go out of style like everything else. And when you are 40, you will look back and think "I can't believe I did that to my hair." Kind of like me and waterfall bangs!!



I completely understand how your parents feel because if I didn't understand the trend, i wouldn't want my daughter to hame them either. Just try to explain it to your parents and if they still don't like it, just wait for them to wash out and don't do it again. It won't be too many more years before you are out on your own and can do whatever you want!



Parents think my hair is trashy?!?!?

I was a kid once. My parents hated that I had hair down to th middle of my back...Now I am a parent of a 20year old ...do I stop him from being him...no....do I object to his clothes yes.... but I do not stop him from being him. You have a right to be you and express your self. Maybe just remind them of what thay did when they were young... and how thier parents (ask your grandma) reacted.



But one thing. Please think before doing anything and remeber that your parents are older and most likely are trying to get you to avoid the pains and mistakes they went through. Iknow I am a guy and its my son but that does not matter in this case. The point is the same.



Happy New Year!!

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